Sitcoms, and other TV shows, always seem to hate it when characters
are happy in relationships. You may have noticed that relationships
follow three criteria:
1. Unrequited love which I have talked a lot about. This is when a character loves another, but the other is oblivious
2. Happy relationship. This is when the creators decide that they
want a character to have a relationship so they let it develop. Think
Jesse and Rebecca on Full Hour or Howard and Bernadette on Big Bang
Theory.
3. And this one, which is today’s subject. When the creators want the
character to have a relationship but do not want it to last. They just
want the character to have the story arc, often going so far as to get
them engaged to be married and in some instances married, and it always
ends with a break up. And very often, the reason for the break-up is
lame!
Why does it always end in a break up? We will talk more about it as
we go but essentially it’s to maintain the status quo. So that the
characters don’t change so much that fans lose interest. One classic
example was Moonlighting. The show was based around the sexual tension
around the two leads and once they hooked up the show got dull. Of
course, once in a while there is an off screen reason for this as you
will see in the examples below. But usually this was the plan from day
one, let the character be happy until they have used up all the story
they can (or they no longer have the actor available) then do the
break-up which of course crushes the character. Good story telling
engine or lame cliché? You be the judge!
Now let me specify I am not talking about single episodes where we
discover a character is dating someone and then some goofy thing breaks
them up by the end of the show. These are long term relationships which
had the new character coming back several times in arcs that would go
three episode or much longer so that we could get to know them and feel
the main character’s pain when the relationship falls apart. Also, no
discussion of relationships that ended with a sudden death because I
have already gone over that.
There are several romance tropes these fall into including True Love is Boring and Off-Screen Breakup. Here are some examples: