September 14, 2024

Five Reasons I Suddenly Love “Modern Family”

 


Premiering in 2009 for years I avoided the acclaimed show Modern Family. Oh I knew it was on but it just never grabbed me. It wasn’t for silly reasons like the network it was on or it featured a gay couple. It was because it was mockumentary style! 


While technically this was around before, The Office made this trend take off. And while it worked for that show, it drives me nuts they every show had to do it since. From Park and Rec all the way to the current Abbott Elementary (which is excellent btw). Why do I hate it? It’s several things. I’m a sucker for traditional three camera shows with a studio audience. So this hand held camera with no audience bugs me. Why I never watch The Middle! And of course what’s even worst is the thing these are famous for, those ridiculous testimonials. Ugh, it’s so lame! I mean The Brady Bunch is fake because they’re happy but characters stopping to do testimonials is real?? It’s also lazy. Why have the characters actions tell what’s going on when they can stare at a camera and tell us directly? 


However the last year or two I finally gave Modern Family a try (you know me, on top of a trend!) and ended up loving it. It’s so well done I got sucked in. With all the comments I’ve made against it for its entire network run, it’s time to share some love. So why does this show work? 

Here are five reasons. 


1.Testimonials are downplayed 

Yeah after trashing the testimonials one of the things I notice and appreciate is that while they’re there they are downplayed. Unlike The Office where the employees felt like they spent more time taking to the cameras then working. However it would be nice if they revealed who they were talking with and why. 


2.Sophia Vergara 

I know it seems weird to single her out but it’s amazing how well she fits into this show. I totally buy that she’s in love with and married to Ed O’Neil. It never feels contrived or forced. She adds a real flavor to the series and keeps it from being 


3.Lilly and her dad’s

Not much to say here but I do love Lilly. She doesn’t get a lot of lines (in the early days anyway) but whenever she does it’s always a scene stealer. And yes Cam and Mitchell showing that a gay couple is pretty much the same as any other is handled very well. I always say Will & Grace walked so Modern Family could run. And besides that they’re very funny and well developed characters. But the way Mitchell and Clair are two totally believable siblings. Lily got inconsistent as she grew up sometimes being mean for the sake of being mean, but when they let her be nice (or appear at all) she was always a good fit. 


4.And the rest… 

It reminds me of Friends in the sense that the show was cast pitch perfectly. Every actor feels genuine and even the ones who you would think don’t fit, do. Ed O’Neil makes the perfect patriarch and I’m glad he found something to be famous for besides Al Bundy. Julie Bowen is fantastic as the frustrated housewife , but unlike Debra Barone you really feel like she does love Phil. And man can she get a laugh. And what can I say about Ty Burrell making this annoying jerk so very likable. I was ready to hate Phil at first but he won me over. Another actor would make him feel fake or annoying but Burrell makes it work. Finally the kids who are also well cast. I love they hit there stereotypes but are still real. Haley is the “dumb” one but she isn’t stupid like others (Mallory Keaton anyone?), Alex is the brain but she still acts like a normal person, and Luke is a normal kid not just “the cute one”. Yeah they disagree but I love theyre there for each other. 



5.It’s funny and well written 

Yeah I know, this show set records for Emmy wins so I’m not the first to say this. But the writing is very sharp. I can’t count how many times I recognized the trope they were doing, but the show switched gears in a way I never saw coming. And the way the plots are structured are Seinfeld levels of fantastic.combined with Frasier style misunderstandings. They also did episodes structured differently with unique gimmick but they still worked. And the vacation episodes..well I always hate travel episodes. Also the show is funny. It seems in the past single camera shows like MASH or The Wonder Years veer more toward drama and the comedy is muted, this is especially so these days (I’m looking at you “The Bear”). This show not so much. It is very funny and doesn’t stray so far into the drama you forget what genre it’s supposed to be. When a show makes me laugh out loud then I’m in. It happened with Cosby. It happened with Seinfeld. It happened with Friends. It happened with Big Bang Theory… and it happened with Modern Family. I’m just sorry it took me so long to realize it. And while it is funny there’s also lots of heart and sentiments. I ended up caring for these characters more than I thought I would. It’s nice after watching ELR to see a functional family on tv again. 


The show actually joins a long list of shows I prejudged and then later loved. I have a real problem with that. A common criticism of its 11 year run is that the show ran out of steam the last few years. I get that, the stories got more silly, the gags more broad and the acting a little exaggerated. It’s perfectly normal for any show to get aged but unlike some (cough. Mad about you. Cough) it was still good and very watchable, leading to a very satisfying series finale in 2020. 

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